| Child sexual abuse occurs when a person
older or stronger than the child uses his or her power,
authority, or position of trust to involve a child in
sexual behavior or activity. Incest, a specific form of
child sexual abuse, is defined as any sexual activity
between a child and a parent, a sibling, an extended family
member, or a step/surrogate parent.
Sexual abusers may be men or women and may be of any
age, nationality, or socio-economic background. They are
often men who are married with children, have respectable
jobs, and may be regular churchgoers. It is common for
offenders to strongly deny their abusive behavior, to
refuse to see their actions as a problem, and to rationalize
their behavior or place blame on something or someone
else. While it is true that many abusers exhibit deeply
rooted insecurities and low self-esteem, these problems
should never be accepted as an excuse for sexually abusing
a child. Most authorities agree that the real issue in
child sexual abuse is more related to a desire for power
and control than for sex.
When God created the human family, He began with a marriage
between a man and a woman based on mutual love and trust.
This relationship is still designed to provide the foundation
for a stable, happy family in which the dignity, worth,
and integrity of each family member is protected and upheld.
Every child, whether male or female, is to be affirmed
as a gift from God. Parents are given the privilege and
responsibility of providing nurture, protection, and physical
care for the children entrusted to them by God. Children
should be able to honor, respect, and trust their parents
and other family members without the risk of abuse.
The Bible condemns child sexual abuse in the strongest
possible terms. It sees any attempt to confuse, blur,
or denigrate personal, generational, or gender boundaries
through sexually abusive behavior as an act of betrayal
and a gross violation of personhood. It openly condemns
abuses of power, authority, and responsibility because
these strike at the very heart of the victims' deepest
feelings about themselves, others, and God, and shatter
their capacity to love and trust. Jesus used strong language
to condemn the actions of anyone who, through word or
deed, causes a child to stumble.
The Adventist Christian community is not immune from
child sexual abuse. We believe that the tenets of the
Seventh-day Adventist faith require us to be actively
involved in its prevention. We are also committed to spiritually
assisting abused and abusive individuals and their families
in their healing and recovery process, and to holding
church professionals and church lay leaders accountable
for maintaining their personal behavior as is appropriate
for persons in positions of spiritual leadership and trust.
As a Church we believe our faith calls us to:
- Uphold the principles of Christ for family relationships
in which the self-respect, dignity, and purity of children
are recognized as divinely mandated rights.
- Provide an atmosphere where children who have been
abused can feel safe when reporting sexual abuse and
can feel that someone will listen to them.
- Become thoroughly informed about sexual abuse and
its impact upon our own church community.
- Help ministers and lay leaders to recognize the warning
signs of child sexual abuse and know how to respond
appropriately when abuse is suspected or a child reports
being sexually abused.
- Establish referral relationships with professional
counselors and local sexual assault agencies who can,
with their professional skills, assist abuse victims
and their families.
- Create guidelines/policies at the appropriate levels
to assist church leaders in:
- Endeavoring to treat with fairness persons accused
of sexually abusing children,
- Holding abusers accountable for their actions
and administering appropriate discipline.
- Support the education and enrichment of families
and family members by:
- Dispelling commonly held religious and cultural
beliefs which may be used to justify or cover up
child sexual abuse.
- Building a healthy sense of personal worth in
each child which enables him or her to respect self
and others.
- Fostering Christlike relationships between males
and females in the home and in the church.
- Provide caring support and a faith-based redemptive
ministry within the church community for abuse survivors
and abusers while enabling them to access the available
network of professional resources in the community.
- Encourage the training of more family professionals
to facilitate the healing and recovery process of abuse
victims and perpetrators.
(The above statement is informed by principles expressed
in the following scriptural passages: Gen 1:26-28; 2:18-25;
Lev 18:20; 2 Sam 13:1-22; Matt 18:6-9; 1 Cor 5:1-5; Eph
6:1-4; Col 3:18-21; 1 Tim 5:5-8.)
This statement was voted during the Spring Meeting of
the General Conference Executive Committee on Tuesday,
April 1, 1997, in Loma Linda, California.
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