TALK TIPS
by A. Allan Martin
It is like POOF! and you are there. Inspiring speakers always had
a way of drawing me into their stories, convincing me with their points,
motivating me to take some action. The best speakers seemed as if they were
speaking directly to me and my circumstance. Such talks challenged and convicted
me, they helped me gain insight about living for Christ. Christ used such
speakers to positively impact my life. Maybe you have a desire to speak
or give a talk or do a sermon? What does it take? What makes for the best
speakers. How do you get the nerve to get up front?
"You've gotta have the desire and fire inside," says Peter Knudsen,
a 28-year old, Los Angeles youth pastor. "The real stuff comes from
inside."
Be real! I would say that the
"stuff from inside" are things you have a passion for, "stuff"
the Holy Spirit is urging you to talk about. One of the keys to effective
speaking is to be connected with the Holy Spirit and spend enough time listening
to what He has to say to you. Listen to HEAR what the Spirit tells you is
relevant and real and important to talk about. That connection is crucial
to creating a talk which is meaningful. Sometimes a talk may seem superficial
or forced, because the speaker has no passion for what she/he is speaking
about. Even with exceptional speakers, if the internal fire and desire is
not there, a potentially great talk will only be a good talk, because the
enthusiasm for the topic/issue is missing. Be sure to have the Holy Spirit
light the fire for your topic and makes you real.
Be relevant! Get clued in to what
is going on for the group you are going to speak to. What are their fears?
What are their hopes? What are their interests? It is always so important
to have a good idea of who will be attending your talk. Your talk will have
the most impact if you speak directly to the issues of your audience. If
you are able to use illustrations and themes that relate to where they are
experientially, you can make a significant impact. The key to relevance
in connecting your audience's contemporary life experience to the power
of the Scriptures.
Richard Guerrero, a 33 year old youthworker from Orlando, Florida, comments,
"The best speakers I have heard are those who bring the Bible to life...When
a speaker is able to relate the Bible to how I live my life today, it has
made a difference to me." Relevance is more than just understanding
where your audience is coming from; It is discovering what the Bible has
to say about where your audience is going or can go. That is where the hope
and truth of your talk will be. The Scriptures need to be the Word in your
words. Be relevant.
Be relational! Especially if you
are speaking to young people, it is important to focus on relationships
as the angle by which you approach your talks. It may sometimes serve your
purpose to give informational talks, but those often come off like infomercials
or like school lectures (BLECH!). By approaching your talk from a relational
perspective you hit on the core issue for youth and young adults. You give
them a context by which to relate to you and your talk. Relationship is
a heart-felt need of our generation. As a speaker, talking about relationship
with each other and with Christ will peak the interest of your audience.
Be revolutionary! The most inspiring
talks are those that call the audience to take action, to make a change,
to move from point A to point B. Young audiences today hear lots of sermons
and speakers who just point out nice spiritual things and leave it at that.
But nice talks are just talks. Your efforts to motivate your audience to
do something specific is so crucial to bring positive change to our world.
I hope you will dare to challenge your audience to act on what you have
said. Be revolutionary and use your talk to help people "walk the walk."
Be right to the point! Bill Truscott,
a college speaker from Papua New Guinea, advises, "Make a good introduction
and a good conclusion, then put them as close together as possible."
Keep your talk focused and to the point. Long-winded sermons don't impress
anyone. A speaker who has something important to say will be concise. It
is better to leave your audience wanting more than to leave them snoring.
Being short and succinct is half the battle.
Being real, relevant, relational, revolutionary, and right to the
point are keys to great speaking. I hope you will use your interest and
talents to speak the Word in truth and positively impact young lives!
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Davis, K. (1991), Secrets of dynamic communication: Preparing &
delivering powerful speeches. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.